Many organizations are founded to help women with domestic violence issues. From giving them shelter to helping them with legal issues, organizations do a tremendous amount to help with the problem of domestic violence.
An alternative way of dealing with domestic violence is programs for the men that aggressively victimize these women. These programs, such as ADA, holds the men accountable for their actions and teaches them new positive ways to deal with problems. Men can learn interpersonal skills and learn to identify, label, and acknowledge their battering behavior. These types of organizations often hold group meetings for the men to interact with each other and learn how to put their newly learned skills to work in their everyday lives.
http://www.csswashtenaw.org/ada/resources/wheels.html
I looked up some of these programs to learn more about how common these programs are and what they want to accomplish. One of the programs that had a lot of information was Amend. Here is a little bit of information from the website:
AMEND is a nonprofit organization working to end domestic violence by providing counseling to men who have been abusive, advocacy and support to their partners and children, and education to the community.
AMEND’s mission is to help men stop their violence and break the cycle of abuse so that they and their partners, children, and families may live in safe and peaceful homes.
AMEND’s philosophy of treatment centers around responsibility: we are responsible for what we feel, how we act, and the consequences of our actions.
Many men who abuse their intimate partners feel that they have been provoked to be violent, that what they did wasn’t really so bad, that anyone would have done the same, or that the whole event was caused by the police or someone outside the family.
At AMEND, we know that minimizing and denying violent behavior is really the same as deciding to continue to be violent towards your partner.
We encourage you to browse our web site to:
- Become informed on new issues.
- Become inspired by what you learn.
- And then, take whatever steps you can to make a difference.
Please contact us if you need help, to volunteer your time and talents, or to make a tax-deductible contribution.